Showing posts with label Lovers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lovers. Show all posts

Monday, October 24, 2016

Jewels of Truth Statements & Favorite Quotes of the Month


Hello All,

Now that the Winter Solstice is nearing with the subsequent holiday of Halloween here in the Western Hemisphere of the world. Many will take in stride the string of other celebratory holidays based on observances and other religious events in these last 3 months of the calendar year. This is a time of family and of friends each as well regarded and often adored. To appreciate your life no matter that it isn't perfect, but is it good enough? If so gratitude to those that support you in life and to God is in order even if it is just spoken in a silent anonymous prayer of praise.

Today's entry of the trio of the "Jewels of Truth" spiritual wisdom statements will be on the topics of confidence, lovers, and mourning a loved one. In the long hand series of #1,128-1,130. These statements were written over 5 years ago and with a little sprucing I'm sharing them here for the first time ever as original works. Eventually to make an appearance in a future published volume of the "Jewels of Truth" series. All of which are clairvoyantly channeled in automatic writing with the Angels as an inclusive compassionate spiritual wisdom mindset.

May you find these topics of interest and refreshing on your own walk of life out upon the world. Amen.

Confidence:

1128) In order to guarantee yourself a peaceful mind where all others will panic and be hectic around you. You should be like the “Eye of the Hurricane” centered with a sense of purpose and inner fortitude. So be strong and not act with a weak sense of self-control. For to arrive at a place of magnificent repose one must surrender all hindrances. Be gentle through compassion but firm with a sense of purpose.

The path of an inner fortitude is never easy but it is worthy of you. Do not concern yourself with trivial matters for they are mere distractions. Focus only on what is true and of importance for the rest must be allowed to resolve itself in due time. By seeking certainty in order to replace doubts just be calm and do not give attention to fear based thinking and feeling. Always count your blessings as a valid tactic to reassure for such an act has the power to heal and impress upon you the good all around! Most of all stand your ground with a firm conviction and again become the “Eye of the Hurricane” so the calmness within the storm of life is subsided each time. Amen.    
                                                                                                 ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

Lovers:

1129) To be well in life look for the blessings all around you and thus so the many blessings will look for you in return. For the lover within seeks to love freely without reservations. Only the dastardly fool will reserve their love for no reason at all, but to stay safe from rejections based upon fear. If you truly love someone else by loving in moderation until you are ready enough to confess your love to them. To be the lover is to be astutely wise in order to gauge if your desire for your beloved is returned back to you. To love without attachment is the hardest thing ever in life. For sometimes a love must be sincerely surrendered to see if destiny agrees that your beloved is truly meant to be with you and not another. Acceptance of such an emotional truth leads to a greatness of spirit within, for so many become possessive of people and things draining them of their beautiful grace. No one is meant to be owned not even property can be owned forever it shall change hands many times in life.

You may be enthralled with lust and infatuation but that isn’t a lasting love. That is more your human biochemistry at work and when taken to an unhealthy extreme it is an ugly vice of the flesh. To love like God and the angels is to love responsibly and unconditionally without favoritism towards none. To love in moderation is a godsend in the world versus those obsessed by love as zealots always causing great harm to themselves and their beloved partner.

Be calm with patience and understanding which shall yield much wisdom that is gained from the misery of others and perhaps your own. Allow your hearts and minds to rise above petty bickering for only hateful fools reopen old wounds based out of selfish fears as insecurities. Fools can easily fall into and out of so called love by their fickle vanity alone. A true noble love stands the test of time knowing when to yield towards compassion and when to stand firm like the rock of Gibraltar. All pure love is unconditional in scope, very hard to practice when challenged but when offered it heals the giver and the receiver instantly. Know the difference between true love and shallow vain love and you will see the Face of God in your combined lives unfolded before thee forever more. Amen.                                                        ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

Mourning:

1130) When the death of a loved one passes from the realm we call mortal life. They are set free from the tribulations of the living here on Earth. This does not mean that we should stop loving them in life by forsaking their dignity by making immoral choices of how we should live after their passing. Your loved ones that cross over shall continue their relationship to you as the years go by. Such a love is constant like the omnipresence of God which is beyond time and the distance of space.

Be truly loving to yourselves by mourning in grace. Do not fret for the dead be more so concerned only for the dying be it in spirit or with the body. For a broken spirit is useless to everyone involved. Give yourself permission to grieve fully, but not to the point of total destructive misery. The living must be responsible for both the living and the dead in life here in the world. Otherwise, chaos will ensue to no end in sight when loved ones unravel in personal depressing grief and anger. Love truly and live with a sense of awe in your life long calling followed by a joyful gratitude. For your loved ones are in paradise and so should you be here on Earth if you live by the compassionate inclusive Will of God for us all. Amen.                                                        ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

A sacred illness is one that educates us and alters us from the inside out, provides experiences and therefore knowledge that we could not possibly achieve in any other way.   ~Deena Metzger.

There will always be suffering. But we must not suffer over the suffering.  ~Alan Watts.

Where there is great love there are always miracles.  ~Willa Cather.

Kindness and compassion toward all living things is the mark of a civilized society.  
                                                                                                      ~Cesar Chavez.

Honor the tradition but expand the understanding. That's what religions must do right now if they hope to be helpful to humans in the years ahead.  ~Neale Donald Walsch. 

Angels come in many forms. If you are waiting for the white-winged, fluffy, newly laundered ones, you might miss the kick-ass muddy Angels who literally move things along in useful ways.  ~Clarissa Pinkola Estes. 

Be a lamp or a lifeboat or a ladder. Help someone's soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.  ~Jalaluddin Rumi.

As you go, proclaim the good news, "The Kingdom of Heaven has come near."         
                                                                                                               ~Matthew 10:7

Ivan "Atrayo" Pozo-Illas, has devoted 21 years of his life to the pursuit of clairvoyant automatic writing channeling the Angelic host. Ivan is the author of the spiritual wisdom series of "Jewels of Truth" consisting of 3 volumes published to date. He also channels conceptual designs that are multi-faceted for the next society to come that are solutions based as a form of dharmic service. Numerous examples of his work are available at "Atrayo's Oracle" blog site of 11 years plus online. Your welcome to visit his website "Jewelsoftruth.us" for further information or to contact Atrayo directly. 

Sunday, February 14, 2016

A Jewels of Truth, St. Valentine's Day Tribute to Lovers



Happy St.Valentine's Day everyone!

Whether you celebrate this occasion or choose to pay no mind as a western holiday. This is still a blessed day acknowledging lovers of all kinds everywhere. In honor of this I wanted to share the 3 out of 5 "Jewels of Truth" spiritual wisdom statements I have upon the topics of Lovers. Across my 3 published volumes of the series for your enjoyment.

May you each find the grace meant in sharing this benediction with that special someone in your life.

Volume 1

1) When you truly encounter someone that will be your future lover on this Earth. And your eyes gaze into each other your souls are remembering what was, and by your sacred permission on a mutual basis what will be once more. Building that former reincarnated relationship where you both last left off in total bliss. Such is the taste of profound intimacy for an eternal soul that transcends beyond humanity, but to all other species of life.   ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo. "Jewels of Truth: A Soul Odyssey Within, Volume 1" Pg. 49


Volume 2

2) When two lovers gaze into each other's star gazed eyes. Both Heaven and Earth pass away from their own combined reality. Where entire unspoken symphonies of absolute Love are exchanged to each other. As if a sacred serenade has become beholden in this blessed instant that occurs between them both. This and so much intensity is the unconditional love God(dess) constantly exchanges throughout all life in Creation.

Unfortunately only a minority become intimate with this form of Divine Love in any given lifetime, although it is always open to all. That is why lovers always tread here in the bosom of God(dess). Or as it is better known as the "Garden of Eden". Amen. ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo. "Jewels of Truth: The Wayfarer of the Soul, Volume 2" Pg. 101-102


Volume 3

3) All lovers be they romantic partners to fully married spouses have found the everlasting treasure in each other. This is only with an ongoing investment into the intimate identity of their partner. Can they ever hope to find a love that transcends time itself. All things that life offers abundantly can be found as a time capsule between lovers over the course of a sincere devoted relationship. What the heart fails to address the mind wrestles in hardship to comprehend its boundless intricacies. Mature expectations and acceptance in your partner affords you both the grace of respecting the other with a mutual dignity. A romance where one takes all emotionally and gives very little in return is doomed to complete failure. Only when lovers give without ceasing to each other in moderation can the romance blossom to become fully remarkable.

It is with honesty that open lines of communication will avoid bottlenecks and breakdowns in speaking to the other directly. This will assure understanding for those you love. Allowing for a conditional privacy for your partner will respect their need for personal space. To avoiding issues of dysfunctional codependency of being always in each other's business. Frustrating jealously is unhealthy for it leads to paranoia and petty arguments that can kill any relationship. Humor in good taste is an elixir of sanity in both the good times and certainly in overcoming the bad ones. Play is not to be forgotten be it in shared hobbies and with the beauty of sex when you truly adore your lover. Romance isn't just the animal attraction it transcends easily into the spiritual when two souls become one in essence.

When arguments persists find peace with compromise without rehashing old psychological wounds. No One Wins when Terror is used to justify your ends in behavior. All things of value are to be shared equally based on Need before wants. Forgiveness with patience is key when obstacles must be ironed out together. Forgiveness with resentments is a shallow act indeed for it permits a temporary forgetting. No matter if the lesson may be learned, but the rancor is never truly surrendered as it should be in spirit.

It is with any married lovers with in-laws as relatives are both a life saver and an annoyance if they fail to respect your lover. Live your lives in union independent of your in-laws if they prove troublesome rather than helpful. For it is to love a parent is keen to loving God in his Holy Spirit. So it is for a parent to know their place in order for their child to live their own lives in truth and cherished dignity.

The most treasured romance is the one where you fall in love all over again. Many years after the first time where this spells the conviction that you truly have your soul mate in your life. Truly love is meant to be lived unconditionally, but practiced with moderation in all the blessed things. Amen  ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.  "Jewels of Truth: The Journey of the Soul Continues, Volume 3" Pg. 183-185

Ivan "Atrayo" Pozo-Illas, has devoted 21 years of his life to the pursuit of clairvoyant automatic writing channeling the Angelic host. Ivan, is the author to the spiritual wisdom series of "Jewels of Truth" consisting of 3 volumes published to date. He also channels conceptual designs that are multi-faceted for the next society to come that are solutions based as a form of dharmic service. Numerous examples of his work is available at "Atrayo's Oracle" blog site of 10 years plus online. Your welcome to visit his website "Jewelsoftruth.us" for further information or to contact "Atrayo" directly. 

Sunday, December 06, 2015

Jewels of Truth Statement: "To Love God Is To Love Everyone As Himself In Spirit"

Hello All,




Now that December is upon us where many at least here in the West as able are preparing to celebrate with families. Irrespective of their religious tradition since it's more than just Christians having a cherished holiday in December. I wanted to touch base with this hot off the notebook "Jewels of Truth" clairvoyantly channeled spiritual wisdom statement. On the very topic of Love in how it avails itself to us and besides how we impact the world through loving. So enjoy statement #2115 in the long count series written just yesterday. Enjoy.

Love: 

2115) With every form of love there is in the world when it is sacred in nature as a devotion. This truly becomes deeply meaningful in the caring and beautifully remarkable to encounter from near and afar. Be it with: a person, a cause, or sincerely directly with God(dess). These manifold avenues to love literally transforms the individual from within their core divine being for the greatest good involved.

No matter what lies between the circumstances of a person in need or in want. Such a true and noble love invokes immediately the holiest presence of God. For with such an unconditional love within moderation in essence that has been offered freely without guile. The Great Majestic Witness God reveals his everlasting joy to all in every direction akin to a gravity well occurring. This sublime connection treats all as dear ones be they lovers romantically or spiritually adept through various outlets of agape. A bubble of grace gently cuddles the scene before one and all participates allowing the angels to weave their ancient craft of holy wonders.

When two or more entities truly love one another with a depth of character seldom seen on Earth. That does no violent harm nor is obsessed for complete control and without anguish turning into awful hate. This remarkable holy love shews the arch of transcendence with complete abandon in adoration with a heavenly supreme nature. When God loves us we are holistically cared for without limit as to our welfare in total compassion. When we truly love God(dess) back we are caring not just for his / her Immaculate essence, but indeed we are caring for everyone and everything within Creation combined. This beautifully becomes every person, creature, and environment. Be they the: innocent, defenseless, vulnerable, infirmed, and literally the offensive in nature with forgiveness. When we enter into divine loving with God(dess) we are wonderfully One again in his / her sacred "Holy Spirit". Amen.                                                          ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

Ivan "Atrayo" Pozo-Illas, has devoted 20 years of his life to the pursuit of clairvoyant automatic writing channeling the angelic host. Ivan, is the author to the spiritual wisdom series of "Jewels of Truth" consisting of 3 volumes published to date. He also channels conceptual designs that are multi-faceted for the next society to come that are solutions based as a form of dharmic service. Numerous examples of his work is available at "Atrayo's Oracle" blog site of 10 years plus existence online. Your welcome to visit his website "Jewelsoftruth.us" for further information or to contact "Atrayo" directly. 

Thursday, August 20, 2015

Jewels of Truth Statements & Favorite Quotes of the Month

Hello All,

It's that time of the month for the "Jewels of Truth Statements & Favorite Quotes of the Month" by other notable sources. Today's trio of spiritual wisdom statements topics are: Love, Lovers, and Redemption. In the series long count of #1084-1086 however also included in my published Volume 3 book of "Jewels of Truth: The Journey of the Soul Continues". 

For those of you who are first time readers thank you for visiting. My work is that of an Angelic Oracle or Channeler utilizing the technique of clairvoyant automatic writing for the past 20 years now. My / Our Angels teach and advise through me for the benefit of all people using a sage like mystical wisdom. There are 455 freely available spiritual wisdom statements on this blog site of "Atrayo's Oracle" for your benefit. You'll just need to hunt and peck by calendar date to locate them since there's no index. Otherwise purchasing a Book, Kindle or Nook edition goes a long way to support my work. :o)

So please enjoy and may these statements entice you in your own personal faith tradition whatever it may be in a beautiful grace.

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Love:

1084) A great Love is always timeless in how it is given and received by those with the capacity to notice its fullness. Such a true love is not superficial it is often filled with ardent sacrifices exchanging what is here now. For what may come later if it is willed strongly enough under a decisive discipline in compassion. Those lovers and saints of pristine character of the heart, mind, and soul are a true personification of what it means to live with a thoughtful purpose. Not to be easily dismayed by setbacks and not truly in denial of the reality of any given situation.

What may come, will come but with a prepared mindset of strength in this life. For walking such a route one is never truly traveling alone in the "Holy Spirit". The Love as a great love nourishes everything with the bumps and bruises all along the way. Such an unconditional love as a graceful discipline instills gratitude for all the achievements and blessings encountered throughout one's experiences. No matter the scale be it the big to the tiniest, the ordinary into the extraordinary in fullest expression. It is all a grace from God(dess) to be alive no matter how it has been defined. It is a thing of beauty in spite of the difficulties. Just because we can love nearly like God in an unconditional fashion once more in eternity as living mortals. Amen.                                                     ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

Lovers:

1085) When lovers catch each other in sweet tender embraces of the heart by sharing each other's bodies in bliss. Often it is built on a set of undisclosed assumptions of what they seek in the other lover. Such attributes of character may or may not be present in truth. Be it in any sexual satisfaction and surely the passions to follow in being together for a time. The joys will only last if the love is built on solid ground with open expectations communicated by both. The reality of the ordinary will shift the passions into another streamlined awareness in living together as lovers. Initial assumptions of your partner will begin to fade as all first impressions recede into the background of each other's lifestyle choices.

Here is when romantic partnerships are tested the most severely. It is in the consequences of what is expected and what actually occurs in truth. Only a true love will reconcile the faults in another’s behavior with acceptance and forgiveness. Humor in good taste will often go a long way to mend emotional sadness experienced together or alone. Whereby what is accepted doesn't force the other into a shape they aren't truly as themselves in conduct. All lovers’ folly begins in making the first wave of wishes into eventual ultimatums of your romantic partner. Badgering your lover into submission is a recipe of heartache and sorrows in any relationship. Both lovers must be willing near equally to be attentive to the other in needs and wants within reason. Otherwise one will surely drift away like flotsam on the open tide from your heart and eventually from your life as a whole. Compromise followed by compassion in respecting each other's boundaries in order to be rejuvenated for the other in life. This will guarantee "What Is" will continue "To Be" in togetherness as the trials and joys will cross your path time and again in this life.   
                                                                               ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

Redemption:

1086) To lose oneself with abandon in a sense of much needed responsibility is reckless indeed. However to lose one's ego is to regain your authentic self by all that is blessed in nature. In all mannerisms that allows you to shine a light upon your worthy soul. This is the holy light of redemption upon the rock of an ever present faith in your goodness. All goodness shall set you free to pursue what are your solemn gifts in this one life. Where prior you lacked the courage to move forward with confidence due to fears of rejection or failure. This divine light will shine within you a revealing glow filled with a truth in a compassionate manner. With a compassion that will lead you away from the appearances of petty differences of circumstance. Into a greater picture of what it means to succeed not just with a material abundance but in a sublime grace as well. This will become part of your spiritual vision understanding that life is a spiral of indirect consequences influencing your direct results.

Living with an unconditional love as an outlook will only give you the resolve to keep on when you otherwise just want to quit. This sacred love will fill you with the "Holy Spirit" each time teaching you the renewable resource of God's Spirit. It is all around you as your energetic soulful self in divine principle. This is the love that caught you when you first took a leap of faith long ago and continue to do so each time as needed. Be well, live past your ego well into your spiritual self as your eternal essence has become real before your very eyes. Amen.     ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

Ivan "Atrayo" Pozo-Illas, has devoted 20 years of his life to the pursuit of clairvoyant automatic writing channeling the angelic host. Ivan is the author to the spiritual wisdom series of "Jewels of Truth" consisting of 3 volumes published to date. He also channels conceptual designs that are multi-faceted for the next society to come that are solutions based as a form of dharmic service. Numerous examples of his work are available at "Atrayo's Oracle" blog site of 10 years plus existence online. 
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Those who have a strong sense of love and belonging have the courage to be imperfect.                                                                ---Brene Brown.

Busyness is not a reason for not getting other things done. It is an excuse for not claiming your true priorities.                                         ---Alan Cohen. 

Your painful emotions are designed to bring your attention to the parts of your personality that you were born to challenge and change, so that you can transform yourself from an angry, jealous, avaricious, or even vengeful person into one who is compassionate, wise, and grateful for Life. 
                                                                                        ---Gary Zukav.

Everywhere you stumble, your treasure lies. ---Norman Lear.

Everything in the world makes sense and is wonderful if viewed through open eyes.                                             ---Jose Ortega y Gasset.

Thursday, February 12, 2015

"Jewels of Truth" Reading From Volumes 1 & 2 on Love and Lovers

Hello All Lovers of Life,

Welcome all my new readers to this St. Valentine holiday special entry. With a hearty thank you for my long standing readers that enjoy my inspired vocation in life.

Today I thought I would do something special instead of sharing one solitary statement from my recent spiritual wisdom writings. I was thinking why not offer several statements from both of my published volumes of the "Jewels of Truth" series. To wet our appetites for passions in life be it a person or a chosen expression of the object of our greatest love in life. I'll start off with excerpts from Volume 1 the "Jewels of Truth: A Soul Odyssey Within" with the topics of Love & Lovers. Followed by Volume 2  the "Jewels of Truth: The Wayfarer of the Soul" with the identical topics of Love & Lovers. Let me know which volume you like best in the series be it the first or the latter second volume.

Do enjoy the material and may it inspire your poetic love life with that special someone closest to you. Namaste.

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Lovers:

When you truly encounter someone that will be your future lover on this Earth. And your eyes gaze into each other your souls are remembering what was, and by your sacred permission on a mutual basis what will be once more. Building that former relationship where you both last left off in total celestial bliss. Such is the taste of profound intimacy for an eternal soul that transcends beyond humanity, but to all other species of life.  

Love:

Love is the intoxication of God.
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Absolute love; heals absolutely.
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All tribulations fade when exposed to total Love.
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Love is the softest balm any soul can feel, and the sweetest taste Life has to offer all.
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The amount of love you can receive is the measure of love you can give.

Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

Jewels of Truth: A Soul Odyssey Within, Volume 1 pg. 47 & 49

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Lovers:

When two lovers gaze into each others star gazed eyes. Both Heaven and Earth pass away from their own combined reality. Where entire unspoken symphonies of absolute Love are exchanged to each other. As if a sacred serenade has become beholden in this blessed instant that occurs between them both. This and so much more intensity is the unconditional love God(dess) constantly exchanges throughout all life in Creation.

Unfortunately only a minority become intimate with this form of Divine Love in any given lifetime, although it is always open to all. That is why lovers always tread here in the bosom of God(dess). Or as it is best known as the "Garden of Eden". Amen.

Love:

Wherever your love is, so is your Heaven made manifest before your very eyes.
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Love is the ultimate absolute magical force known for its benevolence throughout Creation. Amen.
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To love fully and well, especially unconditionally. Is to usher forth the fragrance of heaven into your life. Heaven can be brought anywhere there is a lover of life. Like the glass blower creating a masterpiece. Love is shaped and formed by the purest of desires of a nurturing goodwill. Such a lovers grace for ones own divinity can invoke the "Will of Heaven" where glories will be established as needed. That is the power of "Heaven and Earth" in holy matrimony that has moved mountains across the ages of time forever more. Amen.

Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

Jewels of Truth: The Wayfarer of the Soul, Volume 2 pg. 99, 100, 101

Friday, February 14, 2014

"Jewels of Truth" Reading From Volume 2, A Statement On "Lovers & Love" Itself

Hello All,

"Happy Valentine's Day"!

Traditionally this is a celebration for couples however in an all inclusive spiritual universe. The definition of Lovers can be stretched a bit further to denote the faithful in God(dess). Be it Catholic Nuns that have taken "Jesus Christ" as their own bride groom in faith. If not Buddhist Nuns doing in kind with "Lord Buddha" himself in spirit. All whom love unconditionally fall loosely into the category of Lovers in my opinion.

So today's celebratory post for "Saint Valentine's Day" will include a trio of "Jewels of Truth" spiritual wisdom statements from Volume 2. One on the topic of Lovers and two additional ones on Love itself.

So please enjoy as you celebrate love in all its blessed forms by the sanctity of the presence of God in our midst.

Lovers:

When two lovers gaze into each others star gazed eyes. Both Heaven and Earth pass away from their own combined reality. Where entire unspoken symphonies of absolute Love are exchanged to each other. As if a sacred serenade has become beholden in this blessed instant that occurs between them both. This and so much more intensity is the unconditional love God(dess) constantly exchanges throughout all life in creation.

Unfortunately only a minority become Intimate with this form of Divine Love in any given lifetime. Although it is always open to all. This is why lovers always tread here in the bosom of God(dess). Or as it is better known as the "Garden of Eden". Amen. pg. 101-102   ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

Love:

Wherever your love is, so is your heaven made manifest before your very eyes.  pg. 99  ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

To love fully and well, especially unconditionally is to usher forth the fragrance of heaven into your life. Heaven can be brought anywhere there is a lover of life. Like the glass blower creating a masterpiece. Love is shaped and formed by the purest of desires of goodwill. Such a lovers grace for ones own divinity can invoke the "Will of Heaven" where glories will be established as needed. That is the power of "Heaven and Earth" in holy matrimony that has moved mountains across the ages of time forever more. Amen.
pg. 100  ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.

"Jewels of Truth: The Wayfarer of the Soul", Volume 2

Sunday, February 09, 2014

Jewels of Truth Statement: "The Lovers Way"

Hello All,

As "Saint Valentine's Day" is only five days away from us now. I wanted to share a spiritual wisdom statement I wrote back in early January. On the topic of Lovers in maintaining a relationship full of grace. That's the Ideal, however we all so frequently snap at those we would often go to the ends of the Earth for in tribulations. For those stating I love my partner, but not in such a selfless manner. Well you have what you have in each other by how your willing to build each other up with adoration and hopefully respect for one another.

Today's "Jewels of Truth" statement in the series is at #1643 for those keeping count again written in early January of this New Year. Enjoy. :o)

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Lovers:

1643)  All lovers be they romantic partners to fully married spouses have found the everlasting treasure in each other. Only with an ongoing investment into the intimate identity of their partner. Can they ever hope to find a love that transcends time itself. All things that life offers abundantly can be found as a time capsule between lovers over the course of a sincere devoted relationship. What the heart fails to address the mind wrestles in hardship to comprehend its boundless intricacies. Mature expectations and acceptance in your partner affords you both the grace of respecting the other with a mutual dignity. A romance where one takes all emotionally and gives very little in return is doomed to complete failure. Only when lovers give without ceasing to each other in moderation can the romance blossom to become fully remarkable.

Honesty with open lines of communication avoiding bottlenecks or break downs in speaking to the other directly. Will assure understanding for those you love. Allowing for a conditional privacy for your partner will respect their need for personal space. Avoiding issues of dysfunctional co-dependency of being always in each others business. Frustrating jealously is unhealthy for it leads to paranoia and petty arguments that can kill any relationship. Humor in good taste is an elixir of sanity in both the good times and certainly in overcoming the bad ones. Play is not to be forgotten be it in shared hobbies and with the beauty of sex when you truly adore your lover. Romance isn't just the animal attraction it transcends easily into the spiritual when two souls become one in essence.

If arguments persists find peace with compromise without rehashing old psychological wounds. No One Wins when Terror is used to justify your ends in behavior. All things of value are to be shared equally based on Need before wants. Forgiveness with patience is key when obstacles must be ironed out together. Forgiveness with resentments is a shallow act indeed forget not the lesson learned, but truly surrender it in spirit always.

When married lovers with in-laws as relatives are both a life saver and an annoyance if they fail to respect your lover. Live your lives in union independent of your in-laws if they prove troublesome rather than helpful. For to love a parent is kin to loving God in his "Holy Spirit". So it is for a parent to know their place in order for their child to live their own lives in truth and cherished dignity.

The most treasured romance is the one where you fall in love all over again. Many years after the first time where this spells the conviction that you truly have your soul mate in your life. Truly love is meant to be lived unconditionally, but practiced with moderation in all the blessed things. Amen. ---Ivan Pozo-Illas / Atrayo.